Showing posts with label Charity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Charity. Show all posts

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Blog Tour: Burnt Tost B&B with Charity opportunity






Hi, and welcome to the Burnt Toast B&B blog tour! We’re Heidi Belleau and Rachel Haimowitz, the authors of the book, and we’re so thankful to have you along for the ride, and thankful to our hosts, [blog title], for having us here today!

Normally on a blog tour, we like to share all kinds of behind the scenes goodies to do with the book: inspiration images, glimpses into research and plotting, deleted scenes, conversations about our process, character bios, etc. For this tour, though, we’re doing something a little different, but we hope you’ll still find it worth your while.

When Heidi first pitched The Burnt Toast B&B, it was as an opposites-attract story centring around the world’s worst B&B . . . and an M/M romcom where one of the lead guys just happened to be transgender. Writing solo, she’d done a trans book before, but that was very much a Trans Book, all about exploring gender identity, defining who you are, and coming out to your friends and loved ones. This book . . . isn’t that. It’s the story of an optimistic hipster stuntman and a pessimistic lumberjack who learn to make espresso, fix up a failing B&B, and generally butt heads in between loads of laundry.

Ginsberg, our hipster, is much like many of our other favourite M/M heroes: he’s funny, resilient, romantic, and sexy as hell. He’s also transgender; secure in his identity, his body, and his sexuality; and working in a career he loves. But his life isn’t without hardships. Ginsberg made his own family after his biological one turned out to be too toxic to live with. He scrimped and saved and borrowed to pay for the medical care he needed to be happy and healthy. He found a roof over his head as a “considerate couchsurfer,” living with friends and acquaintances on a temporary basis when money got tight. In Derrick and his failing B&B, Ginsberg finally finds an opportunity to have a real home, if only he can convince Derrick to keep the place open.

Ginsberg’s background of financial hardship and lack of family support is all too common among many people who, like him, are trans and trying to live happy, fulfilling lives as their true selves. As such, we the authors, our publisher Riptide, and our generous blog tour hosts will be using the next few days to highlight the personal fundraisers of real trans people in need. We hope that if you’ve got a little extra money this month, you’ll consider donating, and if money’s tight, maybe you can help by spreading the word, too.

For our part, Rachel, Heidi, and Riptide will be giving donors a $5 Riptide credit code for every $10 in donations you make (up to $50 in codes per person, up to $5,000 in codes overall)--just email your donation receipt(s) to info@riptidepublishing.com with the subject line “Burnt Toast Tour Donation,” and Riptide will send out all $5 codes a week after the tour ends. (It’s totally cool, by the way, to spread your donations across multiple fundraisers if you’d like; we’ll add up all your receipts sent in a single email and base your credit vouchers on the grand total.)

We’re also hosting a special contest for people who donate: every dollar in donations to any of these fundraisers will earn you an entry into a drawing for a full paperback set of Riptide’s current Bluewater Bay lineup, OR two signed paperback copies of The Burnt Toast B&B. We’ll draw one week after the blog tour ends. Every dollar helps, and every dollar counts!

Lastly, we’ll randomly select three commenters from all the tour stops and donate $50 apiece in each winner’s name to the trans charity or fundraiser of their choice. (Please be sure to leave a way for us to contact you if you win!)




Today’s featured fundraiser is for Arianna, a trans woman of color saving money for gender affirming surgery. You can find it at http://www.gofundme.com/axol18. And here’s Arianna :)



Arianna is a proud trans latina woman born and raised in Peru and living now in Florida. She currently works as the Director of Transgender Services for a nonprofit in Fort Lauderdale, and is the East Coast chair of the Translatina Coalition. She began her medical transition about fourteen years ago, and has been paying out of pocket for her hormone therapy this whole time. Now, after giving so much of her time, energy, and passion to the transgender community, she is asking for the community to help her reach her own otherwise unreachable goal: raising money for top surgery. You can learn more about Arianna and help this amazing woman realize her true self at her fundraiser page, http://www.gofundme.com/axol18. 

Thank you so much for following our (slightly unconventional) blog tour! Be sure to leave a comment on this or any of our other tour stops for a chance to have $50 donated in your name to a trans-related fundraiser/charity of your choice. And if you choose to donate to any of the fundraisers we’ve highlighted over the course of the tour, don’t forget to forward proof of your donation to info@riptidepublishing.com with the subject line “Burnt Toast Tour Donation” to claim your $5 coupon(s) and enter your name in the extra special drawing!



Lastly, if you or someone you love is transgender and going through a difficult time, please check out the Trans Lifeline, http://www.translifeline.org/. This crisis helpline is staffed entirely by trans volunteers and runs at least twelve hours a day, seven days a week, in the US and Canada. If you’re in crisis, please call them. If you’d like to support this nonprofit, please visit http://www.gofundme.com/translifeline.









About The Burnt Toast B&B:



After breaking his arm on set, Wolf’s Landing stuntman Ginsberg Sloan finds himself temporarily out of work. Luckily, Bluewater Bay’s worst B&B has cheap long-term rates, and Ginsberg’s not too proud to take advantage of them.

Derrick Richards, a grizzled laid-off logger, inherited the B&B after his parents’ untimely deaths. Making beds and cooking sunny-side-up eggs is hardly Derrick’s idea of a man’s way to make a living, but just as he’s decided to shut the place down, Ginsberg shows up on his doorstep, pitiful and soaking wet, and Derrick can hardly send him packing.

Not outright, at least.

The plan? Carry on the B&B’s tradition of terrible customer service and even worse food until the pampered city boy leaves voluntarily. What Derrick doesn’t count on, though, is that the lousier he gets at hosting, the more he convinces bored, busybody Ginsberg to try to get the B&B back on track. And he definitely doesn’t count on the growing attraction between them, or how much more he learns from Ginsberg than how to put out kitchen fires.


Learn more about Rachel Haimowitz at http://www.riptidepublishing.com/authors/rachel-haimowitz

Saturday, May 17, 2014

Hop Against Homophobia and Transphobia: Transphobia

Thank You for joining us for our 2nd Annual Hop Against Homophobia and Transphobia post in honor of International Day against Homophobia and Transphobia.  And thank you to the amazing Authors: Theo Fenraven, Aleksandr Voinov, and Vicktor Alexander who have so very kindly donated to our giveaway that will be running until May 27th.



They say that ONE Transgender person is murdered every three days around the world. This doesn’t include deaths by suicide or accidents.

One informal study suggests that 50% of transgender people have attempted suicide at least once by age 20. Current suicide rates are estimated by some to be between 31% and 50%, but others believe that it is closer to 60-70%. These statistics are terrifying to me.


I have a few transgender friends. I have found them to be some of the strongest, beautiful, most amazing individuals that I have been BLESSED to meet. And I don’t understand “transphobia”.

Transphobia….

I really, really hate using the word PHOBIA.. It implies that someone FEARS Trans people. Maybe on some level they do, but I think it is more that they HATE what they don’t understand, or challenge their “traditional” beliefs.. But remember that at one time people were taught “traditionally” that the world was flat. We evolve and change, that is one of the most amazing things about human beings.

Imagine, you wake up as the opposite gender, and you KNOW that you don’t belong in the body you are in, but it’s too crazy for someone to believe you. 

Now, imagine being BORN that way. And maybe when you are little and gender roles aren’t as big of a deal then it doesn’t matter, but then puberty hits. You wake up in a body EVERY SINGLE DAY that you feel is betraying you. You feel wrong, and uncomfortable. You KNOW that you and your body are at odds. You know it’s not a phase or something you are going “grow out” of. You are really in the wrong body.

You are an adult, and you’ve taken steps to maybe look or feel more at peace with yourself. Maybe you “pass” or maybe you don’t. You fear that you may lose your job, or your home. You have no real protections under the law. Of course with the work of many organizations, that is changing, slowly but surely, however, it’s not enough.



I want to talk for a moment about GENDER VS SEXUALITY.
Gender is whether you feel that you are Male, Female (or possibly in between or neither)
Sexuality is who you are attracted to.

So it’s possible to be born with a penis, Identify as female and be attracted to women.

Or be born with a vagina, identify as male and be attracted to men.

Gender and sexuality are not the same at all. Sexuality and gender can be combined in a myriad of combinations, and at the end of the day it SHOULD NOT MATTER.



We need to get better about speaking up and speaking out on behalf of our Transgender members of the LGBT community. The suicide statistics I talked about earlier SHOULD be chilling. Some of the people to attempt suicide were as young as 7 years old. I am the mother of a 7 year old, and the thought TERRIFIES me.

What would I do if my child told me they were really the opposite gender? LOVE THEM, attempt to find a gender therapist and ensure that they were given every opportunity within my means to live a happy and whole life, because that is what EVERY child deserves.

I don’t allow my friends to use derogatory terms regarding Gay people, Trans people, or ANY people. All of us are beautiful. Fat, skinny, tall, short, scarred or “perfect”. You are beautiful. You deserve to have a wonderful life.
Kindness costs us NOTHING, and in fact it garners a pretty amazing return. When we are kind, that kindness tends to be revisited upon us.

So keep your chins up, and look forward, not behind you, and if you ever need an ally or a friend, please know that my facebook/email is always open.














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Thursday, May 15, 2014

Give OUT Day: Lost N Found Youth, Hosted by Brandon Shire









Give Out Day 2014

May 15 is the second annual Give Out Day. The purpose of Give OUT Day, a national initiative, is to engage hundreds of organizations and mobilize thousands of people on a single day across the country to give in support of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer community.

It’s a chance for LGBTQ groups large and small, to work across the wide range of issues and activities that matter to the LGBTQ community from sports to policy change, families to the arts. It is your chance to support these organizations and stand up for the LGTBQ causes you believe in.

Here at the Smoocher’s Voice blog, we strive to support the LGBTQ community and its allies. We welcome author Brandon Shire to the blog today to write about the importance of supporting LGTBQ youth organizations, such as Lost-n-Found Youth (http://lostnfoundyouth.org/).

Brandon has always had a special place with us at Smoocher's Voice and we could think of no better community member to host today. 
He can be found at Brandonshire.com







People sometimes ask why I donate part of the proceeds from my books to charity.  For me, this isn’t the type of question that I would normally ask (anyone), but I smile politely and tell the person that making a difference means more to me than simply talking about how things could/should/would be different if… 

You, my reader, are the if.  I am the if.  Together we are the entire what if factor that makes things change.

Let me tell you what we have (collectively) accomplished together:

We have raised thousands of dollars. We have directly impacted over 200 homeless lgbt kids in the last year. We have helped purchase a property that will soon hold a safe house for more homeless lgbt kids. We have helped open a thrift shop so that a charity can self-sustain. We have identified almost 1000 lgbt kids who still need our help. We have gotten a movement together that is beginning to blossom (nationwide) and has just lately demanded action from the federal level on youth homelessness.  We have brought lgbt programs to a part of the country that had none. We have led the fight to stop bullying of lgbt kids in school. We have helped set up a Safe House program. The list goes on…and on and on.

I didn’t do this by myself. You didn’t do it by yourself. The two organizations which my readers and I support directly did not do this by themselves. There are a growing number of lgbt youth organizations, there are a growing number of volunteers, there is growing awareness, and… there is still a growing need.
LGBT children are still being pushed into the streets, still being pushed into a life of sexual survival slavery, and still taking their own lives at disproportionately higher rates than their hetero-sexual counterparts.

But sometimes it is just one voice, one minor donation, one pair of socks that makes a difference. It seems odd that a pair of socks can give a person a sense of self worth. But it’s true. I have seen it.

Children crying over socks – to witness this is soul-breaking.

Have your kids ever cried over socks? Have you? Me neither. As a kid I tossed them aside and went for the real gifts.  Now I donate them. What a turn-around.

So, as you consider what Give-Out Day is really about, and wonder if your small donation makes a difference. Let me assure you that it does.

Some kid you’ll probably never meet has food, a roof, and cleans socks. That makes a difference, a huge difference. It changes lives. Sometimes, it even saves them.








As a thank you for coming by the blog and (hopefully) participating in Give Out Day, we have had several authors generously donate to a massive give-away. There will be more than one winner and we would LOVE for as many people as possible to come participate. 

We want to thank the following authors for their generosity in donating items for a prize drawing:









Prizes:

swag and A signed Print copy of A Broken Kind of Life by Jamie Mayfield

A signed Print copy of Omorphi by C. Kennedy

An ebook copy of the Sky is Dead by Sue Brown (review here)

A Print copy of the Lost and Found Anthology edited by Kris Jacen (donated by Smoocher's Voice)